Having written a few posts on Dorothy Campion and her book Take Not Our Mountain, I have always wanted to find out what happened to her and her family. Now photographer Dylan Arnold has published a book, in Welsh, with photo's
and stories of lost and forgotten places in Wales, including Nyth Bran, where Dorothy lived. Information on the
book and where to buy it can be found here and here
If you would like to find out more about Dylan's work please have a look at his website or his facebook page
Dylan has been very kind and sent me Dorothy's story (in English) and has given permission to publish it on my blog, for which I am very grateful. Here it is:
THE CAMPIONS
It’s
unclear when Hugh Tetlow’s Aunt Nancy, and her mother left Nyth Bran,
but in 1947 a new owner had
taken it on. Thomas Whawell Campion, or ’Whay’ as he was known to all,
was an ex-commando. He had been medically discharged from the army in
1946. At the end of the war, Whay had a haemorrhage on his lung as a
result of contracting tuberculosis. At the time,
effective medicines had not yet been developed for TB, it was therefore
regarded as a serious, contagious illness. Due to the severity of
Whay’s condition, he had not been given long to live. He’d allegedly
contracted TB whilst hunkered down in a cave in Greece,
fighting alongside Tito’s partisans. He regularly suffered recurring,
debilitating bouts, which would leave him bed-bound for a week or more.
Whay eventually overcame it, but it took several years before his
condition drastically improved, against all odds.
When the war ended in Europe, Whay returned to the family home in Betws
y Coed. He could have stayed at home to be nursed by his doting mother
and his two older sisters, but Whay could never have been a dependent
invalid. He decided that he needed a home of
his own; preferably an isolated and quiet bolthole, where he could
recuperate from his illness, lead a simple, peaceful life, and escape
the horrors of war that haunted him.
The
remote cabin of Nyth Bran was perched over 800ft at the end of a rough,
unmade mountain track above
Capel Curig. It had come up for sale, and ticked all the boxes for
Whay. There were wild acres of woodland and moors surrounding the house,
not to mention the spectacular views over the valley below, and towards
Moel Siabod to the South. When Whay bought Nyth
Bran, it was in a state of considerable disrepair. He undertook the
extensive renovations himself over several months. He rented three
hundred acres of the surrounding mountain land for his new flock of one
hundred and thirty sheep. Whay cladded Nyth Bran’s
lounge in half cut sections of logs. He had worked as a timber
contractor for the coal board supplying pit props, which is where he
‘sourced’ the lengths of wood. He decked the hallway with wooden
planks that were once the floorboards of The Royal Oak Hotel
in Betws y Coed. “Whay was able to turn his hand to anything, and often
did, in order to make ends meet. Everything at Nyth Bran, he did
himself. He’d build sheds from scratch and repair everything. He’d
completed an automobile technician course in the army
for a couple of months. He’d take an engine out of the jeep and fix it.
Nothing fazed him at all. He seemed to be able to do anything with a
screwdriver and a hammer.”
Whay
could easily live off the land. He was fearless and self sufficient. He
was a resilient, determined,
and resourceful character, with more than his fair share of charm,
humour and charisma. Born on the 27th of June, 1918, he could not walk
until he was seven years old, following a childhood accident that had
left his legs crushed. By the age of fourteen, he
was working on deep-sea fishing trawlers in the North Sea during his
school holidays. Whay overcame his physical challenges and pursued his
great love for the outdoors. Rock climbing was a particular passion of
his. As well as being a formidable climber, he
was a qualified, expert skier and a well respected mountain guide in
Snowdonia and the Austrian Tyrol. He was also an active member of The
Mountain Rescue in Snowdonia. Before the Second World War, Whay embarked
on a mountaineering and research expedition
to the far north of Norway, conquering a previously unclimbed peak on
the Sweden/Finland border, while collecting data on plant and animal
life. Whay also sailed on two expeditions as a scientific researcher,
collecting geographical data and plant specimens
from South America and Newfoundland for The British Museum. He also
embarked on a museum funded Arctic expedition. He then set sail around
the world on a small yacht for two years, for his own pleasure.
It
was his spirit of adventure that lead him to join the army in 1939. He
was sent with the British Expeditionary
Force in 1940 and later evacuated to Dunkirk with his unit, The
Sherwood Foresters. Whay rarely spoke about the war with his family, but
later said that Dunkirk had been ‘horrific’. He had been wounded in
battle several times and bore many physical and emotional
scars to prove it. Whay escaped death numerous times on the
battlefield, once by bending his head to light a cigarette whilst a
bullet which would have severed it whistled past. After Dunkirk, Whay
signed up with No.2 Special Services Brigade, which would
later develop into the formation of No.9 Commando. Later he would also
serve with No.11 Commando. Whay was in at the start of the Commandos,
when they were formed in 1940, on the order of Prime Minister Winston
Churchill. It was decided that an elite force
was needed that could carry out raids against German-occupied Europe.
These soldiers were hand picked for their intelligence, capability
and resilience. Their training was nothing short of revolutionary at the
time, and much of it is still used today.
Whay
spent most of the next six years of his life serving in various
European countries
during the Second World War, for which he was awarded the Military
Medal, amongst others. He fought in Sicily, Crete, France, Italy and
Greece, and was also sent out twice to the Middle East. Whay fought in
several infamous wartime battles, and played a part
in the daring raid on St.Nazaire, France in 1942, and the brutal Battle
of Anzio, Italy in 1944.
When
Whay returned from the war, it had taken it’s toll on him and
inevitably changed his outlook on life.
Nyth Bran gave him the much needed solace he needed to recover from
tuberculosis, and the grim wartime ordeals he had experienced. His two
dogs, Hemp and Trigger, were his sole companions at lonely Nyth Bran.
Despite the solitude he’d craved for after fighting
in the war, there were times he felt very isolated. That was about to
change in 1952 when he met Dorothy Johns. Dorothy was born into a
wealthy, high-society upbringing in Manchester, and consequently, had a
taste for the finer things in life. The only passing
acquaintance she’d had with Snowdonia was when she had raced through in
her father’s Bentley during motor car trials. She liked socialising,
theatres, expensive clothes and dining at fine restaurants. Dorothy had
tried her hand at a few things, including
modeling, horse-show jumping, and for a brief time she was a racing car
driver. According to Dorothy, she was happiest when she undertook her
training for the role of auxiliary nurse. Dorothy had a young daughter,
Jane, from a previous ‘disastrous’ marriage,
who was three years old when her mother met Whay. Dorothy’s father had
been a successful businessman for many years until his company went
bankrupt. Following the liquidation, the family moved to Rhos on Sea,
North Wales, to start a new life, but sadly Dorothy’s
father died of cancer not long afterwards. Dorothy and Whay seemed an
unlikely couple but nonetheless they fell very much in love. Whay hadn’t
had much experience of being around children, but after a tentative
start, Whay and Jane warmed to each other. After
Dorothy and Jane had stayed at Nyth Bran a few times, Whay decided he
couldn’t live there alone without them anymore. After a brief courtship
lasting a few weeks, Whay and Dorothy were married in Betws y Coed on
Christmas Eve 1952. Dorothy’s mother doubted
her daughter’s suitability to a rural life.
Dorothy
and Jane settled into life at Nyth Bran. At first, Dorothy found it a
jarring culture shock from
the affluent city life she’d left behind. Facilities at the farm were
basic. There was still no electricity, and water had to be pulled from
the well. Later on, when Whay had connected the taps to the water
supply, bathing during Springtime would often result
in a bath full of frogspawn. Dorothy, however, was determined to prove
her capability and devotion to Whay. She took on duties as wife,
homemaker and shepherdess. Whay farmed, and made ends meet by taking on
additional work as a local mountain guide and working
for the Forestry Commission. Jane thrived at Nyth Bran, she and Whay
became inseparable. In Jane’s own words, she was “like his shadow”. She
would look forward to getting up early to help Whay with the sheep,
feeding the hens, fencing and whatever other duties
had to be done on the farm. It was only a quick walk down Nyth Bran’s
track to reach the primary school, where Jane made many happy memories.
Dorothy wasn’t so keen on her daughter learning Welsh though, and later
sent her to an English medium boarding school
in Llanrwst.
During
the snow and blizzards of the winter months, Whay would ski around the
mountainside on his daily
rounds to check the flock and dig the occasional sheep out of heavy
drifts. He would pull a thrilled Jane along in a sled he’d made for her
from some of his old skis. They were accompanied by Dorothy and their
dogs, Carlo, Hemp, Trigger and Bobby, who helped
to sniff out any snow-buried sheep. There was a particularly big freeze
the year Whay moved into Nyth Bran. The farm was engulfed in snowdrifts
to the point that Whay had to lift the skylight in the kitchen, exit
the building via the hatch and skied to Betws
y Coed to get food using some old Norwegian cross country skis he had.
In
the spring, Nyth Bran welcomed its newborn lambs. The kitchen would
echo to the bleats of the orphaned
ones. Dorothy and Jane would feed these lambs and keep them warm by the
Aga. One year they looked after abandoned triplets, which they named
Buttons, Bows and Loppy. Buttons and Bows were duly named because that
was the song that happened to be playing on
the radio when Whay bought the lambs in. Loppy earned his moniker
because his ears never stood up. Whay was never a farmer in the
traditional sense, he just did what he had to do in order to survive and
provide for his family. There wasn’t enough money to
be made farming Nyth Bran’s three hundred acres alone, and despite Whay
taking on additional work whenever and wherever he could, money was
always tight.
Whay
sometimes had to carry out tasks he disliked, such as destroying lambs
that had been born deformed.
One day Jane saw that Whay was going to shoot a pair of lambs that had
been born with deformed legs. Dorothy explained why, showing Jane their
twisted legs, and reasoning with her that it would be cruel to let them
live in pain and unable to walk properly.
Jane asked “If Daddy shoots them, will they go to heaven with grandpa?”
A
week later a Land Rover roared up Nyth Bran’s track. To Whay’s delight
and surprise, it was an old army
friend of his. The ex-soldier had a wooden leg, which Jane had observed
and remarked “Daddy, look at his crippled leg. Do we have to shoot him
too?”
Dorothy’s
mother would occasionally visit Nyth Bran from her home in Llandudno.
For a while she lived at
Bryn Brethynau, the cottage just below Nyth Bran. Along with
neighbouring Waen Hir and Tyn y Coed, it was originally one of the farms
that each had a hundred acres, that made up the three hundred acres
that Whay rented. Dorothy’s brother, Peter, moved in to
Nyth Bran for a while when he was around thirteen. He loved helping out
on the farm and remembered those days fondly. Peter went to school at
Capel Curig, and after finishing agricultural college at Glynllifon, he
worked alongside Whay timber contracting in
the forestry for about ten years. He looked up to Whay and later
recalled “Whay was like a father to me, a lot of people thought we were
father and son”.
Whay
and Dorothy had discussed the issue of children. They both wanted Jane
to have a sibling. It was also
their hope that one day, a son and heir would be born to them, so that
he may continue shepherding at Nyth Bran and develop on the foundations
that Whay and Dorothy had laid. During one, hot summer afternoon, the
pair were felling a half-windblown oak tree
near the house using a two handled saw. They were chatting away happily
when the tree gave a sharp, warning ‘crack’. The tree swayed and
teetered. “Jump!” shouted Whay, but it was too late. Dorothy was flung
to the ground, unconscious, with the oak tree across
her back. She regained consciousness in Bangor Hospital. Luckily, no
bones were broken but surgery had to be performed on her abdominal
wounds. Dorothy’s stomach muscles were badly torn and her left fallopian
tube and ovary were removed. The right fallopian
tube remained but was critically damaged and unlikely to function
again. The doctors broke the news that it was very improbable that
Dorothy would be able to give birth again. It was a devastating blow for
the couple. Whay was heartbroken and blamed himself
for Dorothy’s injuries. Dorothy had difficulty accepting the medical
prognosis and insisted on going for further tests over the following
months, hoping that somehow she would recuperate and improve to the
point that pregnancy could be a possibility again.
The grim situation hung over the couple like a dark cloud and Dorothy
retreated into herself. Whay supported her but was also grief stricken
himself. He eventually suggested to Dorothy that she should stop going
for the medical tests and accept the situation,
as all the tests served to do was prolong their agony.
The
strain of the situation weighed heavily on the couple. Dorothy
suggested some time later that they
could adopt a boy to bring up as their own. Whay immediately agreed to
the idea. Dorothy knew of an orphanage with an adoption agency in
Manchester, so later that night, they wrote their application.
The
daily trips down Nyth Bran’s track to collect the mail in the morning
were suddenly filled with much
anticipation for the eagerly awaited response from the adoption agency.
It was two weeks later when Whay ran into the house, waving a letter
and grinning from ear to ear. A child would be placed with them for
adoption as soon as possible, providing that all
necessary reports and references proved satisfactory. The couple were
over the moon and danced around the kitchen. Dorothy set about gathering
blue baby clothes and woollies. Together they prepared one of the
bedrooms as a nursery, which they painted pale
blue, in readiness for the future shepherd of Nyth Bran.
The
adoption agency let Whay and Dorothy know that a baby boy would be
waiting for them in Manchester on
May 21st; they were over the moon. The Campions lived a fairly isolated
life at Nyth Bran, and since sending the application to the adoption
agency, Dorothy had kept herself to herself and stayed at home all the
time. The reason for this was because she had
decided that only their immediate family, doctor and solicitor should
know that the baby was adopted. Dorothy wrote “If the time should come
when the child must learn that he was adopted, he should hear the truth
only from our own lips”. So in preparation
for their son’s arrival, Dorothy assumed the pretence of being an
expectant mother near her time. A Capel Curig resident remembered seeing
her around the village at that time with a pillow under her dress. They
couldn’t fathom why she was pretending to be
pregnant, but unbeknownst to Dorothy, it seemed that her ruse had
failed to convince the locals.
The
day finally arrived when Whay and Dorothy were to meet their new son.
They excitedly drove the four
hours to Manchester full of hope and anticipation. The baby was
beautiful. He had bright, blue eyes and a mop of golden hair. They had
called him Robert Whaywell Campion. Whay and Dorothy were ecstatic and
couldn’t wait to bring him home. For the first time
in months their lives felt complete.
It
was shortly after Robert’s arrival at the farm, that the electricity
board finally connected Nyth Bran
to the grid, despite the rest of Capel Curig being connected some time
ago. There was much excitement when Robert was fed and bathed by
electric light! Just as Jane had accompanied her parents around the farm
as soon as she’d arrived there, so too did Robert,
as the family carried out their daily duties. They carted him
everywhere in his blue cot and laid him in shaded areas as they got on
with their work. Jane absolutely doted on her new baby brother, and was
always on hand to keep him amused and comforted. Whay
couldn’t have been happier. He was very attentive father to Robert,
nursing and feeding him gently. Whay loved pushing Robert in his pram,
talking animatedly to him all the while. Since Robert’s arrival, Dorothy
and Whay felt closer and happier together than
they had done in a long time.
One
morning at Nyth Bran, Dorothy alleged that an unexpected and sinister
phone call took place between
her and an anonymous woman. The call was to turn their lives upside
down. According to Dorothy, the caller first asked how Whay’s lung was
currently doing. Assuming that the woman was a friend of Whay’s, Dorothy
replied that it was fine and that Whay had never
felt better. The caller then asked when Whay had received his last
check-up and xray, to which Dorothy replied that it was six months
previously and all was satisfactory. Dorothy, sensing an unpleasant tone
to the caller’s voice, asked who she was, but the
woman gave nothing away. The caller then suggested that Robert had not
been born to Dorothy and Whay, stating that Somerset House had no record
of a baby being born to them. The caller then informed Dorothy that she
would be writing to the Health Centre to
share information that they ought to know, like the true state of
Whay’s health, and that in the caller’s opinion Whay wasn’t a fit person
to be taking on the responsibility of an adopted child. The caller then
hung up. According to Dorothy, she immediately
called the telephone exchange to trace the caller, but the operator
could only confirm that it had been a local call.
Whay
had never made a secret of the fact he’d had TB years ago, or how
seriously ill he had been as a result.
The Campions neglected to include this information on the adoption
form, since Whay had recovered to perfect health. The Campions contacted
their solicitor, who advised they do nothing and wait, in case the call
was a bluff. Two days and nights passed, during
which their lives felt in limbo. There was only a matter of days to go
when Robert’s adoption papers should have been signed and completed and
The Campions’ probation period with Robert were to come to an end. On
the next day, the Health Officer telephoned.
The Welfare Centre had received an anonymous letter giving all the
details of Whay’s past illness, stating that he had a haemorrhage in
1946, that there have been a cavity in one lung, that after the war it
had taken him six years to recover his health, but
he still went to Llandudno hospital for a twice yearly checkup, and
that in the opinion of the writer he was not a fit person to father an
adopted child. Despite Whay’s perfect present health, the health officer
was perturbed. If the facts in the anonymous
letter were true, the officer stated that the Campions case must be
reconsidered. Whay and Dorothy begged and pleaded how much Robert meant
to them. They frantically wrote to the orphanage Robert had come from,
to Whay’s doctors, three solicitors and a barrister,
and their local Member of Parliament. Despite their best efforts, the
Health Officer telephoned her final word on the adoption society’s
behalf: Robert must be returned to the orphanage.
It was
1955, Robert had been at Nyth Bran for three or four months at this
point. Whay and Dorothy had
never regarded him as adopted, but as their very own; ‘a gift from
God’. When they drove to Manchester to hand Robert back, they were both
utterly broken. In the weeks that followed, they were unable to eat,
sleep or even think straight. They saw visions of
Robert everywhere at home. The farm was neglected while they grieved.
Their sense of pain and loss was unbearable. Dorothy described feeling
like “the only occupants of a deserted ship, drifting without a compass
or even a star to guide it”.
Spring
came to the farm, and with it, the realisation that the family would
either have to sink or swim.
It was lambing time and there was much work to get stuck into if they
were to survive. Whay and Dorothy broke the news to the villagers about
what had happened to Robert and tried their best to get on with their
lives. They eventually managed to regain some
of their vigour to get on with their daily duties.
As
previously mentioned, there was never much money to go around, but
having neglected the farm for so
long after losing Robert, the Campions were feeling hard financial
pressure. After coming to live at Nyth Bran, Dorothy had taken up
writing to fill in the hours that she was on her own while Whay was out
working. Dorothy had penned a semi autobiographical
manuscript over the last few months which was about to save them
financially for the time being. Luckily for the Campions, Dorothy had
her first book published that year. ‘1000ft Up’ was a collection of
mostly fictitious stories, loosely based on elements
of Dorothy’s life. The book didn’t achieve any significant critical
success but it did sell reasonably well, and earned her some much needed
funds.
Dorothy’s
sister, June Johns, was also a writer. She worked as a journalist for
The Daily Mirror. June
pulled a few strings with her media connections, so that in May 1956
‘Woman’ magazine published Dorothy’s autobiographical account of her
life at Nyth Bran. The story was serialised and ran for several weeks in
the magazine. This bought Dorothy exposure, not
to mention some fame and fortune, which paved the way for the release
of her second book, ‘Take Not Our Mountain’ the following year. The book
told the story of The Campions’ lives as shepherds on their remote,
Welsh mountain farm. Her story captured the hearts
of readers across the nation and beyond. The book flew off the shelves
and was a huge success. The Campions started getting lots
of curious visitors coming up to Nyth Bran. Hundreds of readers of Take
Not Our Mountain, wanted to meet Dorothy and her family
in person! Many of them got their cars stuck on the rough, steep track
along the way up to the farm. Whilst Take Not Our Mountain is
entertaining and mostly factual, there are aspects of the book that have
been romanticised or glossed over. Some recorded events
were possibly set-pieces for the purposes of storytelling. The main
difference between Dorothy’s written account and that of actual events,
is how Dorothy portrayed herself in the book. According to the book,
Dorothy worked alongside Whay on the farm, and
had immersed herself in all the different aspects of its daily running.
By all accounts, Dorothy did very little on the farm, and didn’t like
to get her hands dirty. Dorothy’s relationship with Jane was also not as
harmonious as portrayed in the book. According
to Jane, there was never much love or affection shown to her by her
mother, and that it was Whay who mostly took care and supported her.
Nevertheless, Take Not Our Mountain sold very well, earning Dorothy a
lot of money. She was asked to present talks to various
local and national groups, radio and magazine interviews and book tours
to promote the book. She would sometimes spend weeks away from home
during these promotions. During the course of the book tours and various
public and social engagements, she began to
mix with well-known authors and high profile people. Dorothy started
dressing in expensive clothes again. She had found moderate, new-found
wealth, not to mention some fame. She began to rekindle the life that
she had once been accustomed to, the life she’d
left behind when she married Whay.
At
this point, when Jane was about thirteen, she barely spent any time at
home.
During the week she was boarding at St.Gerards School in Bangor.
Dorothy had sent her there against Whay’s wishes. On weekends, Jane
would stay at her grandmother’s in Llandudno as her mother had demanded.
This may have been because things were getting fraught
between Dorothy and Whay at home. Jane continued at St.Gerards until
she completed her O levels, age fifteen. In 1959 Dorothy released her
third and final book, ‘The Perfect Team’. The book explored the teamwork
of police dog handlers and their Alsatian canine
partners. In the course of researching the book and gathering material,
Dorothy interviewed hundreds of police and armed services dog handlers
all over the UK. She traveled thousands of miles over ten months,
accompanied by her Alsatian, ‘Smokey’. He had been
the sire that she bred other dogs with. Liverpool, Manchester and
Birkenhead police forces all had dogs trained by Dorothy. She had been
commissioned by her publisher to write a fourth book about police
horses, which was to be called ‘Law in the Saddle’, but
that never materialized.
Dorothy
spent months on the road promoting ‘The Perfect Team’ across the UK.
She lived in various cities
during that time, mixing in high-society, literary circles again.
Jane’s suspicions that things weren’t well between her parents were
confirmed when a solicitor visited her at St.Gerards, wanting Jane to
speak about her mother in a divorce court. Later, at
the hearing, Jane told the court that she didn’t want to be with her
mother because she had never been the subject of her love or affection.
She expressed how it was Whay who had always cared for her, and who was
always there for her. Jane pleaded with the
courts to let her stay with her dad. It was at this point that
Dorothy called out “He’s not your dad!” That was how Jane found out that
Whay wasn’t her biological father. Jane was on her knees, sobbing and
hanging on to Whay, while he broke down too. In those
days, the courts almost always gave custody to the mother; this case
was no exception, despite Jane’s desperate pleas.
After
the divorce, Dorothy forbade Jane to get in touch with Whay again. Jane
desperately wanted to though,
and asked her grandmother’s advice about it one day. Her grandmother
advised against contact, knowing what Dorothy’s temper was like. As the
years passed, Jane never did get to speak to Whay again, but to this
day, he’s often in her thoughts.
Dorothy went
to live with her mother in Llandudno for a while, before eventually
moving to Sussex. After
finishing her O levels at St.Gerards, Jane followed her mother down to
the south of England, where she was enrolled at a finishing school at
Guildford. That was around the time when Jane met her mother’s new
partner, Dennis Luckham. Dennis was a wealthy businessman
who owned a large company making hospital equipment in Burgess Hill.
When Jane came home from school one weekend, Dorothy announced that
she’d married Dennis. They were wed on the 21st December, 1964. The
marriage had it’s fair share of problems before ending
in divorce in 1970. When they divorced, Dennis bought Dorothy a pretty,
thatched cottage in Huntingdon, where she lived till the end of her
days. Dorothy lived a lonely life there. She eventually met some
spiritual couples and joined them in following God. Dorothy didn’t
write any more books, but she kept herself busy writing poetry. Dorothy
died alone, aged fifty five, on 8th January, 1980.
After
Jane finished her schooling at Guildford, she went on to do nurse
training and worked as a nurse
for many years. She settled in Hastings, where she met her first
husband and had six children. Jane remarried in 1984 but sadly her
husband died of a heart attack 18 months later. She remarried again in
1987. Jane and her third husband had twenty years together
before he passed away in 2007. Jane currently lives with her son in
Kent.
Dorothy’s brother, Peter,
lost touch with Whay after the divorce. Peter moved to Llanrwst, where
he met his second wife. They emigrated to Canada in 1981 and have lived
there since. Peter farmed a ranch for a while, then took on factory work
for twenty five years before retiring in
2001. Peter and his wife have a son, daughter and grandchildren, who
live close by.
Whay
and Dorothy had a very acrimonious divorce. Whay carried on at Nyth
Bran but had given up farming
it by then. He worked most of the time for the Forestry Commission but
also took on various jobs to make ends meet, such as contracting,
general maintenance and small building jobs. He also drove a minibus for
The Swallow Falls Hotel. At some point around
the early to mid sixties, Whay met and fell in love with Olga Gross
(nee Parry). The pair were married in 1971. Olga was twice divorced and
had two sons, Andy and Michael. Andy was the youngest and was about
twelve years old when he moved into Nyth Bran, Michael
was eleven years older. Whay and young Andy were particularly close,
Whay treated Andy as his own son. Andy looked up to Whay and regarded
him as his dad. Olga and Whay did everything together, they were very
well suited and very much in love. Andy loved his
time at Nyth Bran, remembering the location as an ‘idyllic’ place to
grow up. “You could wander for miles and do what you liked. Although my
friends in Betws y Coed were only five miles away, they might as well
have been on the other side of the world”. Whay
had a couple of pet alsatians and Olga had a sheepdog and a couple of
donkeys. The donkeys were like big dogs that would follow Whay and Olga
everywhere on the farm. Whenever anyone would lay on the grass, the
donkeys would join and lie down too. Sometimes
they would even go into the house.
Although Whay was
tight-lipped about his military past, he would occasionally tell Andy
and Michael tales from
his commando days. Andy remembered Whay telling him about the time he
did his first parachute drop, and that it was going to be operational.
Whay had said that basically, he learned how to jump out of an aeroplane
-
by jumping out of an aeroplane. Another story involved him being
posted to Sicily. Whay was being chased at night by a German patrol. He
came to a wall, jumped over it and landed on a dead German soldier on
the other side. The corpse was bloated and
filled with gas. When Whay’s feet landed on the body it emitted a long,
loud fart. “Of all the things I had to land on, it was a dead German!
Lucky he was dead because there were live ones running up behind,
shooting at me!”
Andy
recalled Whay having a Certificate of Service on the wall at Nyth
Bran that listed all the countries
No.9 and No.11 Commando had served. Whay had an ‘X’ against most of
them, along with a copy of his medal awards at the bottom.
Unsurprisingly, Whay never spoke about how he had been awarded his
medals. It caused much consternation for him to talk about it.
Once, when questioned about them by Dorothy, he reluctantly and angrily
answered “They are pieces of silver, awarded for bravery, given to me
for the fine way I killed…” The Commandos did a lot of things that
these days would be regarded as unacceptable in
the modern world. Since the war, Whay had suffered with what would
nowadays be almost certainly recognised as PTSD (post traumatic stress
disorder). At night, he would sometimes wake the house up, screaming in
bed, plagued by terrible nightmares from the things
he’d seen during the war. Jane also recollected him suffering
nightmares when she lived there. Olga eventually persuaded Whay to see a
doctor about them.
In
1970 Andy left Nyth Bran to start an apprenticeship with the RAF. He
was eventually posted to Germany
but regularly came home on leave. A few years later came the
devastating news of Olga’s cancer diagnosis. Whay nursed her tenderly
throughout her illness and the pair spent all their available time
together. Whay would only work when they really needed money,
in order to maximise the time he had left with his wife. When Olga
became more immobile due to her failing health, she and Whay would mess
about on ‘monkey bikes’ around the farm for entertainment, as she could
not easily leave home at that point.
Olga passed
away in June 1976, aged fifty three. Whay was devastated. Andy returned
from Germany for his
mother’s funeral. Olga’s ashes were scattered on the mound outside the
back of Nyth Bran. When Andy was due to return to Germany, Whay said his
farewells and told Andy he’d see him at Christmas. Sadly, that would be
the last time Andy saw him. Whay sadly died,
broken hearted at Nyth Bran four months later, on October 17th, 1976,
aged fifty eight.
Nyth
Bran then passed on to Andy. He was only twenty one years old, and
still coming to terms with his
mother’s death when Whay’s sudden passing sent him reeling. It was
understandably a very traumatic time for Andy, who didn’t know what to
do with the house. Andy helped his friend out by letting him stay at
Nyth Bran for a year, in exchange for keeping the
house secure and in order.
The
last time Andy visited Nyth Bran was in 1978, to sort out his parents
belongings. He was
living in barracks in Germany and had little room to take anything back
with him. Consequently, a lot of items and all of the furniture was
left behind. After Andy’s friend moved out, a solicitor arranged the
sale of Nyth Bran. It was then sold to the Sloan
family, after they fell in love with its location.
Such a sad, sad story. I especially feel for Jane, being cut off from Whay and never seeing him again.
The one thing I still hope to find out is why Nyth Bran is in such a sorry state today.
Photo by Mark Palombella Hart (2023)
My thanks once again to Dylan Arnold for letting me have this information.